Date Week with DBSK!

Ohhh yeah! I finally brought “Date Week” back and doing it big with DBSK! Now look I KNOW they aren’t together anymore but it makes sense just to group them as one for this instead of having two different date weeks sooo just deal with it k? Besides, all you DBSK fans out there wish they were back together anyway. Now that we have that out of the way if you were given a chance to date each member at the same time, what day of the week would each one get and what would you do with them or to them…I wont judge you ^_^

Monday: Changmin

Ehh what can I say? Changmin really doesn’t do it for me. There is def a certain topic I wont mention here that Ide like to chat with him about (haha inside info btwn him and I) but that’s about it. Maybe we can find a hobby together, like umm painting those weird little white clay statue things. I have a feeling he would enjoy that.


Tuesday: Junsu

Junsu is sooo not my style let me just totally put it out there right now. His facial features aren’t as defined as I like but of course that’s me being picky and shallow as usual. However I love his smile and his laugh plus his personality is totally sweet. Soo Ide like to spend my time with him at an arcade getting crazy competitive, eating cotton candy; the blue one cuz although the pink is pretty the blue is ultra yummy!


Wednesday: Micky Yoochun

I consider Micky “Average Asian” and BOAB has argued with me way toooo many times over this.Look hes totally cute BUT average looking; I mean can’t you just see him workin in your office or strollin down the street texting passing you by?!? He just doesn’t scream Idol to me no matter how many weird hair cuts they give him! So for our date let’s go grocery shopping…No for serious I think grocery shopping with a guy is fun and it would be interesting to see what he picks out and makes me put back.


 

 

Thursday: Yunho

Ugh Yunho is just too cute. He makes my list of “arm candy”  I really don’t want to do anything with him but walk around. I know he’s athletic and into working out but I’m not about to run out on a field or anything like that. However we can totally hit the gym together and while I walk on the treadmill boppin to music from other KPOP groups I’ll just stare at him while he glistens of sweat…sounds like good times right!?

 


 

Friday and Forever After: KIM JAEJOONG!

I don’t even have to explain because you all know I seriously love this guy. I mean him and I are so alike, we’re both really cute people, have some what manic personalities etc. I feel like we would have couples clothing and share makeup. We could buy a new kitten who would be bilingual and its name could be “KrisEro” (Kris + Hero duhhh!). It would be totally awesome! Sooo Friday night can be spent planning couples activities while he teaches me to cook something he really likes!

K-Kisses! KrisE (Personal KPOP Radio:DBSK ‘Mirotic’)

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Are You Really an Equal Opportunity Dater?

 I’ve seriously lost my mind. It’s totally gone, I see it running down the street and OMO! It’s totally out of view..Oh wellll. LOOK! I’ve just been pushed over the edge by the HOTTEST fan appreciation video ever created which b.t.w inspired this post! I know many of you out there are all like “Oh I love Asian guys but I’m all about equal opportunity blah, blah” Whatevs! I spend waayy too much time fangirling out and focusing on Asians to even glance in another direction. I’m being serious here and I want you all to be open to what I’m about to say.

I personally adore the look of Asians so much that no one else even compares. There’s no way I’m gonna sit here and say I’m all about equal opportunity when I know for shizzle that if I’m with a non-Asian, I’m gonna be looking for and wanting an Asian guy instead. Besides, how can I lay snuggled in my bed at night watching gorgeous Asian leading men and wake up to songs sung by gorgeous Asian Idols and then hang with someone who is not the object of my desire? Isnt that doing a serious injustice to myself and to the guy? Plus I’m a pretty shallow person (I’m totally content with being this way) and the way I see it; being mixed myself and then tossing in some Asian flavor would give me pretty doll looking children and since I adore anything “pretty” and “doll-like” it only makes sense to think this way. This is true when I say the moment I got hooked on Korean culture and Korean guys I dropped the guys I was dating real quick  because they were no longer interesting or attractive to me.

Now I’m trying to figure out why some of you are all about equality. Obviously there are those who literally just appreciate Asian guys and culture and that’s totally cool. Maybe some of you live in an area where the odds of spotting an Asian are similar to spotting a UFO. But what about the rest of you? I seriously cant be the only one…riiight? 0_o

Oh and the video that made me spaz was of my precious Alien looking pet Jae Joong. Just watch the video and try to remember to breathe.

K-Kisses! KrisE (Personal KPOP Radio: DBSK ‘Balloons’)

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DBSK Changmin: You Naughty Boy ;)

This is not meant to single out DBSK’s maknae member, Max Changmin, 23, because all men have a naughty, porn-watching side. But since he is known for being on the quiet, shy and “serious”-side, I thought this video would be of interest to the ladies here. In this clip, Changmin discusses his porn addiction quite candidly; with his mother nearby in the green room. I appreciate his candor—it is very refreshing, and although other K-pop stars have admitted to watching and enjoying porn, most of them have not given any detail. Not so with Changmin, and for that, we thank him!

So let’s break this down a bit more. Every single man and most women I know have admitted to watching porn, so this does not make Changmin unique. As a matter of fact, porn is so common and easily accessible that it may just be the “rite of passage” for an unsuspecting (or suspecting) young person. Either way, it’s a multi-billion dollar industry, and is not going anywhere soon. I personally hate the stuff, but I can understand that sometimes these K-pop stars are most of the time lonely, and in desperate need of human touch and affection, and, well, sex. It must be really tough for them. But I think that most of them (especially the young and/or inexperienced) have used porn to learn about the female form and its many inner and outer workings. What do you all think? Is watching porn for these young men a healthy outlet for their often surpressed sexual frustration? Or is it just a guy thing that they use to meet their needs, on top of hordes of ready and willing fans and groupies?


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TVXQ – Before U Go

I’m impressed. Seriously. I expect this kind of soul and passion from Bi, because, well, he’s Bi, he was born with and he’s the best. But I have to admit, on first listen to “Before U Go”, TVXQ took me by surprise. I didn’t know they had it in ’em. Seoul brothas, for real…

Click here to watch the full video clip of “Before U Go” Happy Friday and enjoy!

P.S. Thanks to whatthefrell and Lei for tipping me off! Goodness knows I don’t keep up with TVXQ. Thanks Ladies! 🙂

DBSK/TVXQ: Keep Your Head Down

I’m not a huge DSBK fan (Bi occupies much of my “fanism”), but I can understand if you are! As you know, DBSK used to have 5 members, but has been reduced to 2 (the other 3 formed the pop group JYJ). That merits a whole other post. Apparently, this is the new DBSK’s comeback in late 2010…and yes this is “old” and they have released a few more songs since then. But I thought I’d start covering them since their comeback. I must say…this is highly enjoyable! I am looking forward to hearing much more from them.

K-Pop Idols Fight Back

DBSK has had enough

They are sick and tired of being exploited and mistreated. Three members of DBSK have told their former management company where they can stick their slave contracts. According to the Korea Times, Xiah, Mickey and Hero of DBSK have sued SM Management, claiming that the 10-year contracts were unfair and dictated nearly every aspect of their lives.

What exactly is a slave contract? The Korea Times describes them as “excessively binding”. “Boys Over Flowers” actress, Jang Je-Yeon (seen above), who took her own life last year, apparently found out the hard way. In a 7 page suicide letter, she wrote of the horrors she was required to endure under contract, namely acting as a sexual escort for a string of media and music executives. Taiwanese singer Estrella Lin (who was set to debut in South Korea) corroborated this by stating that she was also asked to provide sexual services for several bigwigs in the business. She also claimed that the majority of South Korean actors, actresses and singers are forced to “barter their bodies” in exchange for fame and fortune.

There is nothing good about what is happening, but this generation of k-pop idols are really standing up for themselves, and hopefully, this will help to lessen the corruption in the South Korean entertainment industry. I understand this is very common, so of course it will take time. Baby steps, I say. This reminds me of the legal battle that Bi won when he sued the group that managed him and five other boys in “Fanclub” for inhumane mistreatment.

Mind you, this is not in any way, shape or form isolated to the South Korean entertainment industry. Not by any stretch of the imagination. Prostitution and human exploitation have been around since the beginning of the human history. And sure, these South Korean execs may be gangsters and pimps, but Hollywood houses some of the biggest gangsters and pimps in the world. Just sayin’…