Can anyone disagree with me that Bi’s eyes are probably the one trait on his face that gives it the most character? Can you believe that it was also the one trait that caused him to fail audition after audition in the early days before his debut?? According to him, he was turned down numerous times by talent recruiters who told him that he wasn’t good-looking (probably meaning Western-looking enough) and even encouraged him to have surgery to change his single eyelids to double. He must have felt pretty low at this time, but that didn’t stop him from trying (gotta love his determination). So why didn’t he have the surgery done? < Well, apparently, he went to a famed surgeon for a consultation, and the surgeon advised him that he had too much fortune in his natural looks and that he shouldn't change them in any way. Well, I'm not going to say that I wouldn't like Bi today if he'd have gotten double-eyelid surgery, but I much prefer his single eyelids. My friends think I'm crazy, but I love Asian men for their natural looks. The smaller, more single-eyelided (if that’s a word!) their eyes are: the better! I loves 'em as exotic as I can gets 'em! 🙂
As much as we love hot and talented Asian men, we’ve got to concentrate on loving ourselves first and foremost. Essence.com was prudent enough to post 40 reasons why we should be proud to be black women (I’ve included the esteemed list in this post below). This is what we need to hear more of. And no doubt, all women are beautiful no matter their color, but it is black women who have been dehumanized the most; and therefore, we need reminders of just how beautiful we are: inside and out.
To the Asian guys reading this: we want to hear more from you, so feel free to tell us how much you love us. Don’t be shy!
40 Reasons Why Black Women Are Beautiful
We are loving and compassionate.
We are the matriarchs of our community.
We are harmonious with the world.
We are powerful beyond measure.
Our voices are melodic, soulful and strong.
We age like no other.
We are dedicated to living a blessed life.
We are resilient.
We can make something out of nothing, with ease.
We have a sense of style and confidence that’s all our own.
We stay fly, whether we’re rocking an afro, a bob, braids, a press n’ curl or a even a close crop.
We have strong muscle structure.
We have kissable lips.
From our cheek and collar bones to the shape of our calves–our contours are distinctive and remarkable.
We are fearless leaders, strong enough to hold the world on our shoulders.
When things are wrong, we do everything in our power to make them right.
We are brilliant and articulate.
We are strong yet feminine.
We play the game to win.
We love hard!
We’re tough, loyal caretakers…naturally maternal.
Our skin looks exquisite in vivid colors.
We’re the fiercest runway walkers.
We are creative.
We are always hopeful.
We’re mentors, ready to guide a young person.
We are driven.
We are creative beyond measure.
We are originators of style and class.
We are down-to-earth.
We are dependable as the sun.
We have the gift of understanding.
We have endurance under pressure.
We are straight-up.
We break barriers every day.
The old saying is true…good black don’t crack!
From Lil Kim to Oprah, we come in a zillion different flavors–and they’re all gorgeous.
We don’t leave the house with crazy hair.
We’ve always rejected “grunge chic” trends going for the fabulous and the glamour.
Our smiles light up the world.
My previous post spotlighting “Beautiful Korean Men” received such a positive and jaw-dropping reaction that I decided to start a series with ogling hot Korean guys specifically in mind. “Beautiful Korean Men” is a Facebook page after BWLB’s own heart. Weekly, I will attempt to provide a few delectable samples of Korean male hotness….starting with today. Enjoy!